Sunday, December 31, 2017

Duckwater: Working with BYU Native American Services

While I lived in Duckwater I had the chance to work with BYU Native American Services.  They help sponsor a tribal dinner for the holidays, which we used to fee the tribe for a funeral.  They also sponsored a dentist to come to the reservation and do dental work for free.  Dr. Max Blackham became our family dentist after we moved to Utah.  I received this letter from Dale Tingey after we relocated.

Wednesday, December 27, 2017

Sara's Funeral: Song I Sang: Be Still My Soul (I love the Lord)

This is the song I sang at my sister's funeral two years ago.

I Love The Lord (Be Still My Soul)

I love the Lord, in Him my soul delights.
Upon His word, I ponder day and night.
He's heard my cry, brought visions to my sleep,
And kept me safe o'er deserts and the deep.
He's filled my heart with His consuming love,
And borne me high on wings of His great dove.

  1. 1. Be still, my soul: The Lord is on thy side;
    With patience bear thy cross of grief or pain.
    Leave to thy God to order and provide;
    In ev'ry change he faithful will remain.
    Be still, my soul: Thy best, thy heav'nly Friend
    Thru thorny ways leads to a joyful end.
  2. 2. Be still, my soul: Thy God doth undertake
    To guide the future as he has the past.
    Thy hope, thy confidence let nothing shake;
    All now mysterious shall be bright at last.
    Be still, my soul: The waves and winds still know
    His voice who ruled them while he dwelt below.
  3. 3. Be still, my soul: The hour is hast'ning on
    When we shall be forever with the Lord,
    When disappointment, grief, and fear are gone,
    Sorrow forgot, love's purest joys restored.
    Be still, my soul: When change and tears are past,
    All safe and blessed we shall meet at last.

Monday, December 25, 2017

Stories I like: Trouble At the Inn

This is a Christmas story.  I found it in a compilation of Christmas stories from Deseret Book: Memorable Christmas Stories, Compiled by Leon R. Hartshorn, Deseret Book, Salt lake City, Utah 1974.  However the story indicates it is copyrighted to Guideposts Magazine, 1966.  It was written by Dina Donohue.
For years now whenever Christmas pageants are talked about in a certain town in the Midwest, someone is sure to mention the name of Wallace Purling.  Wally's performance in one annual production of the nativity play has slipped into the realm of legend.  But the old-timers who were in the audience that night never tire of recalling exactly what happened. 
Wall was nine that year and in the second grade, though he should have been in the fourth.  Most people in town knew that he had difficulty in keeping up.  He was big and clumsy, slow in movement and mind.  Still, Wall was well-liked by the other children in his class, all of whom were smaller than he, though the boys had trouble hiding their irritation when Wall would ask to play ball with them or any game, for that matter, in which winning was important. 
Most often they's find a way to keep him out, but Wally would have around anyway--not sulking, just hoping.  He was always a helpful boy, a willing and smiling one, and the natural protector, paradoxically, of the underdog.  If the older boys chased the younger ones away, it would always be Wally who'd say, "Can't the stay?  They're no bother."
Wally fancied the idea of being a shepherd with a flute in the Christmas pageant that year, but the play's director, Miss Lambard, assigned him to a more important role.  After all, she reasoned, the innkeeper did not have too many lines, and Wally's size would make his refusal of lodging to Joseph more forceful. 
So it happened that the usual large, partisan audience gathered for the town's yearly extravaganza of crooks and Crèches, of beards, crowns, and a whole stageful of squeaky voices.  No one on stage or off was more caught up in the magic of the night than Wallace Purling.  They said later that he stood in the wings and watched the performance with such fascination that from time to time Miss Lambard had to make sure he did not wander onstage before his cue.
Then cam the time when Joseph appeared, slowly, tenderly guiding Mary to the door of the inn.  Joseph knocked hard on the wooden door set into the painted backdrop.  Wally the innkeeper was there, waiting.
"What do you want?" Wally said, swinging the door open with a brusque gesture.
"We seek lodging."
"Seek it elsewhere."  Wally looked straight ahead but spoke vigorously.  "The inn is filled."
"Sir, we have asked everywhere in vain.  We have traveled far and are very weary."
"There is no room in this inn for you."  Wally looked properly stern.
"Please good innkeeper, this is my wife, Mary.  She is heavy with child and needs a place to rest.  Surely you must have some small corner for her.  She is so tired."
Now for the first time, the innkeeper relaxed his stiff stance and looked down at Mary.  With that, there was a long pause, long enough to make the audience a bit tense with embarrassment.
"No!  Begone!" the prompter whispered from the wings.
"No1" Wally repeated automatically, "Begone!"
Joseph sadly placed his arm around Mary, and Mary laid her head upon her husband's shoulder, and the two of them started to move away.  The innkeeper did not returned inside the  inn, howe er.  wally stood there in the doorway watching the forlorn couple.  His mouth was open, his brow creased with concern, his eyes filled unmistakably with tears.
And suddently the Christmas pageant became different from all others. 
"Don't go Joseph," Wally called out.  "Bring Mary back."  And Wallace Purling's face grew a bright smile.  "You can have my room."
Some people in town thought that the pageant had been ruined.  Yet there were others--many, many others--who considered it the most Christmas of all Christmas pageants they had ever seen.

Saturday, December 23, 2017

My Vocals: Away in a Manger




"Away In a Manger" with the setting of the primary reenactment of The Christmas Story a few years ago.  This is one of my favorite Christmas songs.  In this version I sing many different styles.  I am not sure which I prefer because I like them all.  

White Christmas; Irving Berlin, Cover Billy Wardle Merry Christmas


I recorded this for Christmas 2012.  It is one of my favorite Christmas songs.  I think it really says merry Christmas in a very nice fashion.  

Tuesday, December 12, 2017

Employee Honors at EMQ (Now Uplift) Crisis Counseling

I actually received a few of these during my almost ten years with EMQ Crisis.  I worked there on-call while I worked for County Mental Health full time.  The best one was when it came with a coupon for two meals at the Elephant Bar.